How to Find the Best Partner for a Happy Matrimonial Life

In fact, life is not so short. Although, in an average of 60 years, we spent, almost 15 years in sleeping and another 15 years in professional life, career and education, we are still left with a hefty 30 years to actually enjoy our times with family, friends and with ourselves! In here, what we call the ‘Life Partner’ has a very substantial contribution. You may find one even in online matrimony sites and he or she is the one with whom you will have to stay half of your lifetime. To change just ‘Times’ to ‘Happy Times’ your partner should be an understanding, sensible and most importantly should prioritize you in every decision. And, a happy married life is more about yourself rather than your partner, because, you too need to have the same qualities that you expect from the one in your life. Here are some tips to find your best partner.

Go for the tendency to adjust rather than a Compatibility test. Most of the prospective couples look for compatibility of matching characters, personalities and likes or dislikes. However, this is not the right way because what we keep on repeating becomes a habit and habits become character. Therefore, you should rather check out if your awaited partner would change if required and can adjust with you sharing any circumstances of life. Suppose, you are a prospective Kannada matrimonial and your partner is somewhere from the west. In this situation, going for a compatibility test would be difficult because of many differences. But, if both of you can adjust, you become compatible to each other naturally.

While looking for a partner, never make haste decisions. Human psychology is much complicated and it can sometime defy the best logic you have. Intense attraction towards the opposite person can make you take the primer decision of your life such as marriage without much thought. Such propensity can lead you to a life time of adjustments. Give some time to understand each other before you make a bonding relationship. In a typical Indian matrimonial life, a remarriage rarely happens. Therefore, take him or her seriously before you marry.

Never judge a person on account of education or college degree, designation, talent, age and wealth. Rather, go for some other traits. The Favorite Books, favorite Music & television shows, what’s the philosophy of life and how he or she deal with embarrassing moments or bad situations are good indicators of personality.